i refuse to be shamed for having a body. i refuse to get embarrassed when a tampon falls out of my purse or spend a whole day anxious about if someones going to notice that i forgot to shave a patch of leg hair. i wasnt put on this earth to spend my time apologizing for my existence and i refuse to let anyone make me feel like i have to waste my energy on all that petty shit
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She gets it.
Okay seriously this shit needs to stop NOW.
Here are your options:
1. Call it something else. This fashion style has been on tumblr forever, most of you guys seem young so maybe you didn’t know but seriously just go back to calling it “doll” or “living doll” or “dolly” like Kotakoti or something else that isn’t about “daddy issues” or sexualizing children
2. Burn in hell/go to jail if you’re happy romanticizing child abuse and the fetishization of children. There are actual children suffering abuse worldwide and there are survivors on tumblr who REALLY don’t want to see you romanticizing their trauma. It’s so inconsiderate and heartbreaking and disgusting. You should all be ashamed. If you don’t give a shit about victims then like what would your parents think? Your grandparents? I understand that a lot of you are young and this is something that makes you feel good about yourself, and you should but please just find another term. I know as a teenager your automatic reaction to being told you can’t/shouldn’t do something is defensive but like you need to really be thinking about this shit.
Even if YOU are “legal,” promoting the fetish, reblogging shit of people who aren’t and all together carrying forth this type of phrasing is hazardous. I know all about your “community” and how it’s apparently not sexual but simultaneously sexual and like really stop with the bullshit excuses because bottom line- Lolita is about rape and “nymphet” is still a phrase centred around rape.
My heart is breaking every time I see this shit and I don’t know what to do besides plead with you all to see how damaging this is. Your style, your blogs, and/or your “kinks” are not more important than protecting children and protecting victims.
So are you even looking through our blogs or do you just see the word “nymphet” or “Lolita” and automatically freak outBefore you start telling girls to “burn in hell” maybe you should do some research on the word and archetype “nymphet”. Because there is so much more to that word than it being centered around rape. I mean, I guess if you only know a little but about Lolita, then yeah, I could see that, but Nabokov simply named an archetype that has been around since Greek times so it is far more than Nabokov. (But even then, Margot was a nymphet and there was no rape in Laughter in the Dark at all, but you probably knew that because you’re an expert of the archetype nymphet and are here to not ignorantly insult us, right?) You know what you sound like? A tumblr activist who isn’t a victim of anything, but is overly offended in hopes of getting notes. You aren’t doing right by anyone by telling girls to go to hell. Some of us are exploring our own sexuality, not sexualizing children, and we’re all the ages of like 15-25 so if you think that girls between those ages shouldn’t have sexualities well then, maybe you are the one who needs helps. And you know what? Young girls going through puberty do have sexualities! Sure they shouldn’t sleep with anyone, but they masturbate, and have fantasies. It’s really puritanical and hurtful to ignore those feelings that almost everyone has because it alienates them. I’m not saying sexualize children, I’m saying adolescents have budding sexualities. (You just told a 14 year old girl to go burn in hell for that, yes I’m going to listen to you now, your ethos is very strong and will change my opinion). But even then, have you looked at most of these girls blogs? None of them have anything to do with sex in the first place. And don’t be telling them what they should or shouldn’t call it, it literally doesn’t affect you in any way. All it is, is some silly little blog community filled with teenage girls who aren’t going to affect anything really. Like seriously, words have power, but we don’t have a fuckton of followers and there aren’t even very many of us so we don’t have much of an impact. A lot of blogs in the nymphet community, are literary and very reflective about what it means to be a nymphet in society, and how are we affected by it (check mine) A lot of tumblr nymphets are survivors of abuse, and are not romanticizing anything. Like take me for instance. I was sexually abused by two people, but identifying as a nymphet, helped me claim my sexuality back, and help me move on from terms like ‘victim’ because ultimately they were very harmful for me. You will hear that story from a lot of us. But who cares about us being victims right? How we cope and handle with things clearly doesn’t matter to you. Maybe you also should research the literary period romanticism before you start telling us what we should and shouldn’t romanticize. I mean, that word has different connotations than just the one about romance and love. Lolita is a romantic book, sorry. Not like, true love, romantic comedy way, but more like heavy metaphors, unreliable narrators, relying on individual to complete a journey, heavy on nature, and not on religion kind of way. You say your heart breaks for us, but you’re rude and offensive so please save the fake pity because none of us need it. Before you tell us how to cope, what to like and how to live life, maybe you should do some research before you act smarter and better than literally an entire community of girls *hair flips away*
You CLEARLY didn’t read my posts at all, you stuck up child who can’t handle critical thinking. Read my tagged/nymphet and try again.critical thinkingnoun
- the objective analysis and evaluation of an issue in order to form a judgementWhat you said wasn’t ‘critical thinking’ and involved no level of analysis whatsoever.
this is truly hilarious. another idiot mindlessly thinking that nymphet-esque terms are directly related to child abuse make my world go round.
oops i did it again
“Elia of Dorne,” they all heard Ser Gregor say, when they were close enough to kiss. His deep voice boomed within the helm. “I killed her screaming whelp.” He thrust his free hand into Oberyn’s unprotected face, pushing steel fingers into his eyes. “Then I raped her.” Clegane slammed his fist into the Dornishman’s mouth, making splinters of his teeth. “Then I smashed her fucking head in. Like this.”